Question from a No Excuses Introductions and Concierge member of our group on Facebook: How do you get a guy to be romantic?
Answer from No Excuses Introductions and Concierge Founders: Not all guys are romantic. However, we did some research to see if there's any hope.
Try this:
1. Communicate with your man and tell him what it is that would be nice to spice up the romance...different women want different things...guys appreciate when you tell them directly what you need.
2. Go first! Lead into romance by doing something romantic first. If a guy catches on to the feelings that romance can bring, he's likely to realize that it is rewarding for him, too.
3. Reciprocate. If your guy does something romantic, remember to return the favor. Guys like nice things done for them, too.
4. Contact No Excuses Concierge. noexcusestexas@gmail.com
Ideas:
- Leave a note on his/her car, by their sink, in their luggage, under their pillow, by the coffee pot...any where they frequent! It doesn't have to rhyme, be long, or poetic... a nice message from the significant other is special!
- Make an old-fashioned phone call. Ladies love to receive calls from their significant others ask her on a date a couple of days in advance. Plan the date. When it's time for the date, know exactly what you are doing and where you're taking her. That adds romance, that you took the time to plan!! (Or have No Excuses Concierge plan and take the credit!)
- Email them a link to a sweet, sexy, romantic, special song...
- Send them a card in the REAL mail... these days it's nice to get something in the real mail aside from bills.
