[...continued] You can get engaged in a year; if that is what you want.   Impossible- you say?  There just aren’t any good ones out there- you bargain?  No Excuses!  In this series we are going to tell you 7 steps to getting engaged in 1 year.

Step Two: You must be approachable.  Now that you've got your physical appearance in order; you must make eye contact with all of those members of the opposite sex that are noticing you.  You look great, so, you want to smile and make eye contact.  If you do not do these two things then you will not be approachable and thus, the goal can not be met!  People won't talk or come up to someone who looks too serious, is texting (or pretending to text) on their phone, talking on the phone, ignoring their surroundings, looks busy....on and on and on.  So many of us make the mistake of trying to seem preoccupied because we get NERVOUS in public places.  DON'T make this mistake. 

 And, contrary to popular belief, there's not a "BEST" place to meet singles.  Yes, there are places where your chances may go up, but, most singles are going on about their daily activities just like you are.  So, you'll meet them at the coffee shop, the gym, the grocery store, the bank, work place, and where ever else your daily schedule takes you.  So, always look good (step #1) and always make eye contact and smile (step #2).  

At www.noexcusestexas.com you can sign up for a personal consultation to review your interpersonal skills and build your confidence and make sure you have what it takes to conquer step 2 of the 7 steps it takes to be engaged in 1 year.